In This Episode
In this episode, we tackle the often misunderstood topic of Mediator Instructions and Behaviors in mediation. Is your mediator a controlling figure, or are they guiding you towards a successful outcome? We explore common misconceptions that participants face and decode the seemingly mysterious actions of mediators. From why your mediator might not be giving you direct answers, to understanding their role in maintaining the balance and integrity of the mediation process, this episode sheds light on how to better navigate mediation.
Key Takeaways:
- Demystify Mediator Behavior: Learn why mediators sometimes seem to hold back or focus on the other party, and what that means for your mediation.
- Understand the Mediator’s Role: Gain insights into the different communication modes mediators use—Directions, Instructions, and Suggestions—and how each impacts the mediation process.
- Improve Your Mediation Experience: Discover how to effectively communicate with your mediator, avoid common pitfalls, and ensure a productive mediation.
- When to Assert Yourself: Know when and how to challenge your mediator’s directions if they don’t align with your needs or concerns.
This episode is essential for anyone who wants to maximize the value of their mediation by understanding and working effectively with their mediator.
Season: 2024
Episode: 03
Series: 10 Tips for Pro Se Mediation Success
Colorado Model Standards of Conduct for Mediators:
https://www.courts.state.co.us/userfiles/file/Court_Probation/01st_Judicial_District/Colorado_Model_Standards2000%20(3).pdf
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