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In this first episode of the “Pro Se Divorce Podcast,” Tom Davis, a seasoned Certified Professional Divorce Mediator, shares how listeners can achieve greater success in their divorce mediations by taking control of the process. Tom breaks down the core benefits of Pro Se mediation, such as reduced conflict, cost savings, and faster resolutions, all while empowering listeners to stay in the driver’s seat. He also introduces an upcoming series, “10 Things Pro Se Parties Can Do to Produce Successful Mediation Results,” which will provide actionable strategies to help you navigate mediation with confidence and clarity. Whether you’re in the midst of a divorce or looking to be prepared for any future challenges, this podcast equips you with the tools to achieve the best possible outcomes in your mediation journey.
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Aug 14, 2024 • 12:59
Whether you're in the midst of a divorce or looking to be prepared for any future challenges, this podcast equips you with the tools to achieve the best possible outcomes in your mediation journey.
Aug 25, 2024 • 17:56
In this episode of the Pro Se Divorce Podcast, Tom Davis dives into the crucial difference between internal and external goals in mediation. Understanding these distinctions is key to achieving success. Tom explains how external goals, often tied to tangible assets like the marital home or spousal maintenance, can create…
Sep 2, 2024 • 15:53
In this podcast episode, the importance of Pre-Mediation Disclosures in mediation is discussed, focusing on how these disclosures can contribute to a successful mediation process. There are two main types: Financial Disclosures and Mediation Topics Disclosures, which can sometimes be termed Confidential Pre-Mediation Disclosures.
Sep 9, 2024 • 33:10
This episode is essential for anyone who wants to maximize the value of their mediation by understanding and working effectively with their mediator.
Sep 16, 2024 • 14:45
In this episode of the Pro Se Divorce Podcast, Tom Davis dives into the critical importance of pre-mediation planning to avoid emotional and negotiation triggers that can derail the mediation process.
Sep 23, 2024 • 11:58
By the end of the episode, you’ll have practical tools to turn one of the most common irritations in mediation—interruptions—into opportunities for clearer communication and more productive negotiations.
Sep 30, 2024 • 11:58
In this episode, we explore the critical role that asking the right questions plays in mediation.
Oct 8, 2024 • 53:04
In today’s episode, I’ll walk through how BATNA, WATNA, and the Zone of Possible Agreement (ZOPA) play critical roles in spousal maintenance negotiations and how these tools helped me close a seemingly impossible gap.
Oct 14, 2024 • 24:35
In this episode of the Pro Se Divorce Podcast we explore the value of using Private Caucuses in divorce mediation. Private Caucuses offer a confidential space where each party can speak freely with the mediator, allowing for more open communication, problem-solving, and emotional venting. We also share a real-life story…
Oct 21, 2024 • 1:04:40
In this episode, Tom Davis emphasizes the importance of prioritizing children's emotional well-being and reducing conflict during divorce mediation, rather than focusing on material concerns like overnights and holidays.